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Last week, a client asked me, "How would you define mindfulness?" And it got me thinking.
I experience mindfulness as an alert, sustained, flexible focus of attention on "what is."
Using our SoulCollage cards in a mindful way, working with our cards becomes part of our spiritual practice. We might begin our "ritual" with a little prayer or blessing, invoking The Source to help us find a healing voice through the cards; to bring compassion into our lives.
Mindfulness is easy when everything's going great. But in challenging times, when our minds and emotions froth like a stormy sea, your SoulCollage cards can offer that still small voice of calmness and neutrality about "what is" and then begin to calm the storm in the mind.
The 3-Minute Breathing Space
As an example, your kids are screaming, the house is a mess, you've got a project due in 3 hours.
- Draw a card you like from your deck and ask, "What would you have me know?"
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Listen. Just be. Let the words come to you without seeking. The simple act of listening will start to calm the mind. Kindling
receptivity signals the body to breathed.
- Let a tiny micro smile come to your lips and watch the tide of well being start to flow from your nervous system to your body.
- Now ask your card 3 simple questions:
1. What is?
2. How can I be more present?
3. What's next?
Listen for the answers. Let the message come to you. Stop seeking. Be open and receptive like a flower opening to the suns warmth.
- Alert
- Sustained
- Flexible
- Focus of attention on
- "What is."
Be prepared to be more peaceful and productive.
See the similarities between SoulCollage® and Mindfulness
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What happens when we practice:
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We are totally absorbed in what we are doing. We have that delicious feeling of Flow. We live in the present moment |
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We have a gentle awareness of our thoughts, rather than believing our thoughts |
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We are deeply engaged so that it keeps our attention focused, so that distractions cannot penetrate |
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As our attention focuses and narrows, self-consciousness evaporates |
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Awareness and action merge |
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We feel sense of personal mastery |
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The experience is intrinsically rewarding so it is a lasting pleasure in and of itself. Its memory empowers us. |
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Every moment is new, novel. We sit in that place of not knowing, of discovery |
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We let go of self improvement, and see and feel what is instead |
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Our powerful focus and awareness on what is, helps us see the hidden meaning and power in every day life |
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Benefits of the practice |
Mindfulness |
SoulCollage® |
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Inoculates us against impulsive thoughts, worry, rumination |
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Enables us to embrace rather than run away from troublesome behaviors or thought patterns, so we can heal |
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We learn the power of acceptance by the very nature of the activity |
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Optimal conditions for the practice |
Mindfulness |
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Challenging but not unattainable, we use simple skills and we also stretch a little |
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Matched to ability level, so as to not feel stressful, but not so easy it would be boring |
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Goals needs to be clearly defined, concrete so that each step is clear |
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Need immediate feedback, to gauge progress quickly. If it’s not working it’s apparent and we change what we’re doing |
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